I was contacted by a writer recently who is putting together an article about the whole debate on whether to trash or treasure that gown you wear on your wedding day. I get asked frequently about my opinion on this topic, and of course I want everyone to donate their dress… but here are some reasons why.
“Y’know, I’m all for brides truly enjoying their dresses on the day! The act of deliberately trying to ruin something that can be worth thousands of dollars, however, seems to be a symptom of the ‘disposable’ society we have become. Long gone are the days of wearing our mother’s gowns and passing them down from generation to generation, but that certainly does not mean that these garments become worthless after ‘the big day’. Quite the contrary! It would be nice to see a new tradition continue of passing the dress on to another bride to enjoy and fighting cancer at the same time 😉 Donors are invited to include a note with their dress for the new bride, and this is a lovely way to wish the new bride happiness as she embarks on her marriage and to pass on that great karma from one happy bride to the next. Some dresses come through here several times… and just like the Sisterhood of the Travelling Pants; there’s often a personal touch added each time so the dress is never exactly the same.For brides who shop here, the dresses we offer provide a wonderful option. Not only are they cost-conscious (typically half or less than half the retail value), but it’s also an environmentally conscious choice (reuse!) and one that is socially conscious. Many express their delight that while they would have spent money on a dress one way or another, this way they are making a meaningful contribution. Since I think it’s fair to say that we’ve all been touched by cancer… that contribution is one that benefits our family, friends and loved ones.
I had an absolutely delightful bride here on Sunday who had lost her father to cancer a year ago. Buying her dress here was an incredibly important and meaningful event for her… and as she left she said to me, “I think my father would be proud of me.” I couldn’t agree more. He may not be around to walk her down the aisle, but as I hopefully like to think, the advancements in research and treatment might mean that someone else’s father IS there. Wouldn’t that be the best wedding gift of all?
And finally… it has to be said… our earth and our environment shouldn’t come at the expense of a bit of fun and a photo shoot. You know what these words mean – carbon footprint, sustainability and finally… Zero Waste. The latter may not be achievable in its entirety, but shouldn’t we at least make that our aim?
Just some food for thought.
‘Plastic Planet’ – pallet wrap and plastic bags/Yoshi Matsuzaki Photo, Michelle Sin Design
Found in article by Michelle Sin called: Wear the Change: Project Trashion